Never overdraw your life account

There is a line in 'Thunder of the Earth':Everything in this world comes with a price, and what is owed will eventually be repaidEverything in the world has a limit.Everything in life is not inexhaustible

There is a line in 'Thunder of the Earth':

Everything in this world comes with a price, and what is owed will eventually be repaid

Everything in the world has a limit.

Everything in life is not inexhaustible. If we only take and don't save, we will end up in debt.

So, in the second half of life, no matter how difficult life may be, don't easily overdraw your life account and owe these four debts.

Due to physical debt

Famous actor Li Xuejian has been on the scene for many years and is a well-deserved veteran in the industry.

But in his daily life, he is extremely fond of smoking and drinking, and his family's persuasion is of no avail.

Until 2000, Li Xuejian was diagnosed with nasopharyngeal carcinoma, which made it difficult to drink water in severe cases, and even caused dizziness and vomiting as soon as he moved around.

Fortunately, the surgery and chemotherapy were relatively successful, and during his recovery, he was also thinking about his future lifestyle.

Since then, Li Xuejian has started to quit smoking and drinking, persisted in exercising, and developed good habits of daily life.

In addition, he also fell in love with calligraphy and painting, moving and calming, both nourishing his body and mind.

In the end, Li Xuejian's condition basically recovered. Although his voice was still a bit hoarse, he was able to continue his beloved entertainment career.

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Schopenhauer said:The biggest mistake that humans can make is to exchange health for other external possessions

When we were young, we always thought that the days ahead were long and our bodies could withstand destruction. As I grew older, I realized that my health was deteriorating and I could no longer afford to struggle.

In fact, becoming the ultimate winner in life often relies not on outstanding abilities, but on a healthy body.

No matter how busy you are, don't forget to fill your stomach in time, and no matter how annoying you are, don't forget to go to bed early.

Life is long, only by treating one's body well and maintaining a healthy state can one have a better quality of life.

To owe money in debt

There are many ways to end a friendship, and the most thorough one is to owe money and not repay it

If friends refuse to repay their debts on the grounds of good relationships, they will eventually develop irreparable cracks in their relationships.

The Spring Festival Gala sketch "Still Not Returned" tells the story of:

Lao Shen was sued by his friends for not repaying money, and the court also listed him as a dishonest executor.

But even if he has money in his hand, he is unwilling to pay off the debt and instead finds various reasons to repeatedly evade it.

One day two friends came to the door to pursue debt, and Lao Shen hung up a hanging bottle and put on slippers, disguised as a poor patient.

Unexpectedly, these two friends felt pity and lent him money again to treat his illness.

It wasn't until Lao Shen's cousin came to ask for debt that his lie was punctured.

The two friends were extremely disappointed and didn't want to consider their friendship anymore. They once again made a request to repay the money to Lao Shen, but he refused.

The two friends swore to sever their friendship with Old Shen En and left disheartened by slamming the door.

At that moment, Lao Shen remembered the help and care his friends had given him.

He was filled with remorse and ultimately decided to repay all the debts he owed.

In life, those friends who are willing to borrow money to save lives are valuable individuals worth cherishing.

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Even if the relationship is good, don't let down this enthusiasm and kindness for personal gain.

If deliberately avoiding and borrowing without repayment, it will only make friends lose money and chill their hearts.

As the saying goes:If you want to lose a friend, not paying back the money can help you achieve your wish

Friends lend not money, but sincerity; The repayment is not debt, but character.

The greatest wisdom of a person is to stick to the bottom line of social interaction and sincerely give back to others for their efforts.

Gratitude for a friend's timely help, cherish the hard won fate, and only then can our friendship be profound and long-lasting.

Owe a debt of gratitude

There is a question on Zhihu: "Why do some people always say that human debt is the most difficult to repay

Writer Feng Xuerong said, "The reason why human debt is difficult to repay is because there is no market price

Watched a video shared by blogger @ Pangmei Zhengneng:

The girl Xiao Tang was worried about moving, and her enthusiastic colleague Xiao Cai offered to help.

Unexpectedly, while the two were moving furniture, Xiao Cai accidentally scratched the walls and doors of the rented house. The landlord used this as an excuse to deduct a lot of deposit from Xiao Tang.

But due to affection, Xiao Tang couldn't say anything. Instead, as a gesture of gratitude, he invited Xiao Cai to dinner.

Unexpectedly, Xiao Cai invited several friends to come with him, and he didn't hesitate to order. As a result, this meal cost 980 yuan, which is even more expensive than the moving fee!

Afterwards, Xiao Cai either asked Xiao Tang for help with the documents or borrowed money from her. When Xiao Tang politely refused, Xiao Cai also expressed strong dissatisfaction.

Xiao Tang was determined to save money and trouble, but not only did he spend more money, but he also owed a debt of gratitude.

She realized that what was free was actually the most expensive.

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Sometimes, we always think that others' unpaid assistance is just a matter of lifting a finger.

But when interacting with people, there is no unconditional help, only a game of value exchange.

If you trouble others for temporary gain, every additional trouble will add another debt.

Those easily owed favors will eventually become self bound cocoons, too heavy to break free.

There is a saying:In fact, every favor we owe is truly the most expensive usury

Only by using human kindness on the blade can one have the freedom and independence to walk in the world.

Owing credit bonds

The ancients said, "Without faith, one cannot stand, and without faith, one cannot achieve anything

Once a person overdraws their credit, even with any amount of money, they cannot regain the trust of others.

There is a story in the book "Young People Must Understand the Way of Life":

A young man had just joined a newspaper when his boss wanted him to take on an important interview.

Due to the difficulty of the interview, the boss decided to first understand his wishes and arrange for colleagues to accompany and assist.

But he patted his chest without hesitation and promised to complete the task.

The boss believed it and stopped asking questions. Three days later, the young man returned without success.

It turned out that this matter was far from as simple as he imagined, and his strength could not stand alone.

However, the best interview time had already passed, and other newspapers had already taken the lead.

The young man praised his words but failed to fulfill them, not only leaving the impression of his boss being dishonest, but also greatly affecting the work of the department.

Since then, his superiors have never assigned him important tasks again.

Interpersonal relationships are all based on mutual trust, which can establish emotional connections.

Trustworthiness does not arise without reason, but is based on years of accumulation.

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Credit is like a mirror, once fragmented, even if pieced together, it cannot be restored to its original state.

As Liu Run, CEO of Runmi Consulting, said:A person's credit takes a lifetime to accumulate, but it often only takes a minute to destroy it

True wise people often follow their words and fulfill their promises, making integrity their beautiful business card.

The behavior of fools is to constantly overdraw their credit limit and ultimately embark on a path that is difficult to turn over.

Only by carefully managing one's own reputation and adhering to the principles of dealing with others can one gain the respect and trust of others.

A writer once said, "Every time good luck comes, it is the interest you have saved, and every time bad luck comes, it is a compensation for the past

Everything in the world has a cause and effect, never overdraw your life account.

The body is the greatest wealth, not at the cost of health, in order to withstand the capricious life.

Money is the best proof, without using emotions as a bargaining chip, one can gain long-lasting friendships.

Human kindness is the most expensive loan, and only by not taking it as part can we avoid the risk of being difficult to repay.

Credit is the greatest asset. If promises are not talked about in vain, one can ultimately win the trust of exchanging sincerity for sincerity.

For the rest of your life, may you have no burden or burden on your body, and let the wind grow under your feet. Go light and be the controller of your own life.

Author: Heartbeat Ling listens, meeting a better self with you in the world of words.

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